Coming to America

Saturday, November 15th, 2008

I’ve lived in many countries over the past 10 years and enjoyed just about every minute. Because of this, I feel I can voice my opinion on people going from one country to another. Many US citizens detest the idea of Mexicans, Cubans, Dominicans or Puerto Rican’s trying to live in the US. Now granted, some enjoy the government footing the bill…but isn’t that an American way of life? American’s who don’t work still eat, still enjoy living in their homes and still enjoy free medical care. However, in Mexico, for example, if you don’t work you don’t eat. Mexico wants their people to work and because their country doesn’t foot the bill - they have to work. Why does the US foot the food bill for Americans? Makes no sense to me. If you don’t work - you don’t eat.

Now, as far as Mexicans or Haitians or Cuban’s “coming to American”…who cares? The US has lots and lots of land that is still undeveloped, unlike China, right? It’s not like the people that come illegally do so to hurt the US…but to help the US in whatever small way they can. These people actually LOVE the United States. These immigrants come to the US and are willing to do work for less than any greedy American I know. When was the last time you asked an out-of-work American to clean the toilets for less than $10 an hour? It’s a toilet for God’s sake. It has less germs than the keyboard of your computer!!! Yet, most Americans of any race consider themselves too good for the job and refuse to do the job for less than $10 an hour.

Now, I have lived in the Dominican Republic. This same situation occurs there as well, so the US is singled out only as being a very large and prosperous country.  If you are Dominican and you see a Haitian (Haiti shares the same island as the DR), that has worked very hard to get into the DR, you shun them, walk on the other side of the street or worse, hurt them. Do you know that there are grain trucks that carry rice throughout the Dominican Republic that have Haitians (because they work for less than 25 cents a day) scoop the rice with buckets?  Sometimes they work too hard and die or they get hit by a car. Know what the Dominican truck owner does? They simply throw the body into the field and hire another Haitian. No big deal. Their mindset is that the people from Haiti are no better, or worse, than a bug you would squash for getting in your way.

People! We are talking about human lives here? Why is one life valued at less than another? Why does it ask your race on many applications? (unless your race is a marathon in NYC) Why does race come into any conversation other than finding out a way to solve this problem? And, why can Mexicans not come to the US to do the jobs that Americans are to darn lazy to do or “think” they are too good for? Instead, they’d rather sit on their butts and collect government money - because their too good for ANY job.

Lord knows these immigrants would never apply for government money because their illegal; most aren’t a part of some drug cartel or gang - like the ones that exist in the US started by US citizens…so why are American’s so shallow and selfish to share their country with others? Isn’t that a part of what America is all about? Sharing??? Please, help me understand.

How can anyone say, “I hate Ed Hightower”?

Thursday, May 1st, 2008

This is the caption of a Facebook application. Who is Ed Hightower? He is a man that I have a lot of respect for, always have and always will. Unlike those that post such negative information about someone they’ve never met. I have actually met Ed and had conversations with him. I haven’t talked to him in a long time but we went to high school and college together.

In school Ed was a stand-up guy. He was respectful, kind and worked hard at his studies (what we called schoolwork back then). I can’t imagine that the NCAA would have given this man such a prestigious position as a referee for the Final Four if he weren’t all that he is supposed to be in his position.

During the last game I was listening to the sports commentators talk about Ed Hightower and what a benefit to the game of college basketball he is. I agree.

The purpose of this isn’t to bash the bashers but to ask them the last time they ref’d a game next to him? When was the last time they had a conversation with him? Do they have the education and background Ed Hightower has? Exactly, what is it that these bashers dislike about a hard working man that has devoted his life to the the education of young people, his family and the game of basketball. I’m sure jealousy is in there some place but not sure where. I’m sure that shallow thinking is also a part of their thought process…or lack there of.

All in all, how can anyone on this planet ever hate someone they’ve never met, never talked with and never even occupied the same space they do?  We can dislik the actions of some. We can strongly disliked what people have said but hate…hate is such a strong emotion and borders with the other emotion of love. I’m all in favor of using all the energy in the world for love but why use that much energy on a person you’ve never met. Fine, dislike a call a referee has made. Fine, dislike something someone has said. But please, don’t advertise your ignorance by hating someone you’ve never met.

Ed Hightower is a good person that has done nothing but make this world a better place just for being a part of it and I am a better person for knowing him.  Diana